The relationship habits of both people in a partnership is what will make or break you.
Understanding what your needs are, what boundaries need to be clearly set in place and remaining true to your identity will provide you with a strong foundation to work upon.
When each person in a couple can understand their relationship habits they are able to adapt in a way that suits the couple as a whole.
It means knowing how to fight fair. Living a blame free and shame free existence. Taking responsibility and being flexible to your partners wants and needs.
It requires you to understand them as much as you need to understand yourself.
Toxic relationship habits can often go undetected if we aren’t raising our awareness surrounding our behaviors.
Raising our awareness of the driving factors behind what and why we behave the way we do.
In this ‘Relationship Habits’ category we go back to basics. I offer you little nuggets of advice that require thought and hard work, together with your partner, in order to have a successful relationship.
Not many of us place high enough important on our relationships.
We want them to work with no effort and seek the reward of happiness and love without the pain it takes to maintain the momentum.
We think we value our relationships because we fixate over them.
We worry about them. But we don’t put the sweat and grind in the make them work how they should. Because it’s hard.
But that is not how a good relationship functions.
So, take a brows and be prepared for some beautiful nuggets of advice that might sound harsh…But, you definitely need to hear it.
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